It is time to quit pleasing everybody…

When I come to the end of my days I want to be able to say…

In this life,
In this moment in time…
I spoke my truth
I lived out my purpose
I let go of cultural conditioning of what I “should” do and how I “should” live my life.
I chose to live the life I wanted to live
And… I was kind
And I chose to positively support others in their quest to live their most expansive and extraordinary life.

I know I won’t do this perfectly all the time but I know I can and I do achieve this more than less…

But I also know I am still human, and like all of us, I have an ego,
And because of that I can be a little sensitive sometimes
And, I also know…
When you want to evolve
When you want to do something different
When you want to break free of the conditioning
When you want to get outside the box

Sometime people aren’t always
or understanding
or accepting
or encouraging

In truth, when you do make different choices
to live life on your terms
to evolve
and grow and expand
it is almost a given…

You will be mocked…
(Do it anyway)

You will be criticised…
(Do it anyway)

You will be judged…
(Do it anyway)

You will be misunderstood…
(Do it anyway)

People will think you are crazy…
(Do it anyway)

People will want to keep you down…
(Do it anyway)

So… I just want to say…

Please, please, please
No matter how uncomfortable it may feel at times

Don’t let these things stop you or hold you back from living…

Honour your deep inner desires
Listen to the voice that wants more
that desires more
that asks for more

Whether that’s
more love in your life
more vitality
more fun and joy
more freedom in your lifestyle
more prosperity
more experiences and/or adventure

Yes, it takes courage
To evolve
To choose to do things differently
To follow your dreams


And remember
There are more than 7 billion people on this planet.
You will never ever please everybody all the time anyway.

And that’s ok
That’s actually a good thing (a really good thing)

Fortunately or unfortunately, you will be judged and criticised no matter what your choices and/or actions.

So you may as well choose to live the life you want
The life you dream of
The life you desire
The life you deserve
And the life you are worthy of living

And, another thing… For all the critics out there

There are also so many people out there that do and will
Love you
Support you
Encourage you
Cheer for you
And build you up

You are not here to live your life to please others or to fit in a box

You are so much more than that!

So today is the day to start quitting
Quit pleasing everyone
Quit seeking approval from everyone
Quit hiding

You can live your version of an expansive and extraordinary life, it just takes a little courage.

Dalice ❤

“You know, sometimes all you need is twenty seconds of insane courage. Just literally twenty seconds of just embarrassing bravery. And I promise you, something great will come of it.” Benjamin Mee, We Bought a Zoo

As a transformational coach I am passionate about supporting my clients to move past the feelings of shame, fear, unworthiness to experience more love, more joy, more prosperity, more connection and more passion. I’m available at if you want to learn more.


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